I am, I'm John Foreman, born on Christmas Day, 1945, at St. Clare's Hospital on Manhattan's West Side.
My mother was a beautiful girl from the South, whose fabricated past we never fully unraveled.
My father was an explorer of Tibet, a daredevil newspaperman, and an "Old China Hand." I was well into adulthood before I grasped the extent to which his life had been ruined in the 1950s. If heaven and hell do in fact exist, may the late Senator Joseph McCarthy enjoy a richly deserved roasting in the latter.
Until age 10, I grew up thinking I had two sisters. Here we are, visiting George Washington's Mt. Vernon in the late 1940s. My father, per usual, is out of the country. I am sitting on my mother's knee. Jackie, my sister who turned out not to actually be my sister, is standing on the left. Today Jackie is celebrated for her sunny, sandy, watery, beachy paintings of eastern Long Island. My brainy sister Brenda is seated on the right. Brenda, who was 15 when she left for college, is a veteran of heavy duty think tanks, the Pentagon and the Lockheed Corporation. I don't know who the other girl is.
I was a charming little boy, but not celebrated for anything in particular.
In 1958 my father drove my mother and me to Hollywood in hopes of taking a job. It didn't pan out. Harrison never had much money, but he had a lot of style. Pity I don't still have that car.
I was a typical fraternity boy in college. It took years to grow into my looks, and out of those attitudes.
After college, I became a pot smoking hippy.
I got married in 1975 and for many years we were a loving and mutually supportive couple.
We lived in a string of big houses, moving from one to another more from necessity than desire.
I don't know if we had a reputation for big parties, but we did give a lot of them. I continued after we separated.
We had a little girl, with whom I'm very close. I was a single parent for about 9 years, which is a story for a more confessional blog than "Big Old Houses."
I married for love, but after my separation fell madly and profoundly in love with Andy. It didn't last, but I am richer for the experience. After Andy, I met Joe, who literally made my blood race every time I looked at him. I guess it wasn't mutual since, as the kids say, he dumped me. Man, did that ever hurt. Joe would be pissed if I posted his photo on my blog, so I won't.
My daughter went to boarding school, and then to college...
...and then she got married...
...to a nice guy named Mike.
And now they have a baby named Lily. Both of them work. He reps medical gas and owns rental property and she teaches special ed.
For many years, I rode with the Millbrook Hunt. The Great Recession of 2008 put an end to that - and to my horse, and to some fancy club memberships I don't miss as much as I thought I would. I still ride most weekends, albeit no longer amidst such pomp.
I don't mind getting older, but I'd like at a certain point to be able to stop aging - like, maybe at this point.
That's obviously not everything about me, but it's a lot.
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
Thursday, August 14, 2014
Now it's Interstate 80
Before Interstate 80, there was U.S. 66, now called "Historic 66." It was the road my glamorous (and unemployed) father followed, en famille in 1958, when he (very briefly) considered taking a job in L.A. A century earlier, an adventurer like Harrison would have trekked the Oregon Trail, compared to which the trip in our 1953 Cadillac was the stuff of science fiction.
From 1836 to 1869, depending on the source one consults, 280,000 to half a million westbound emigrants departed Independence, MO. on the Oregon Trail. By 1843 the initial trickle had become a torrent. America's westbound frenzy was further fanned by the 1847 serialization in Knickerbocker's Magazine of "The Oregon Trail," by Francis Parkman (1823-1893). The pioneers he wrote about were brave, tough people; the trail they followed was 2000 miles long; their wagons sometimes had to be disassembled and carried; 10% who started never finished. One band, calling itself the Oregon Dragoons, carried a banner that said "Oregon or the Grave." The largest cause of mortality (surprisingly) wasn't Indian attack but accidental gunshot.
Here's N.C. Wyeth's painting of Francis Parkman, commissioned for a 1925 reissue of "The Oregon Trail." I don't know if Parkman was really that good looking, but the outfit is legit. Parkman's praise of his wilderness guide, a Frenchman named Henri Chatillon (1813-1873), included a description of the latter's "trousers of deer-skin, ornamented along the seams with rows of long fringes...his bullet pouch and powderhorn hung at his side..." Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, not the less so when it's such a good look. Parkman's published odes to his "true-hearted friend" made Chatillon famous.
Uber-guide Chatillon, seen below on a bad hair day, enabled his 23-year-old Boston Brahmin employer to produce a singularly readable travelogue containing episodes like "A Mountain Hunt," "The War Parties," "Scenes at Fort Laramie," "Indian Alarms," "The Lonely Journey," etc., etc. The public ate it up, even after 1869 when the first transcontinental railroad enabled anyone with $65 to make the same trip in 7 days.
The Chatillon-DeMenil Mansion, seen below from Demenil Place in South St. Louis, MO, started out as a 4-room farmhouse. While off in the wilderness with Parkman, Chatillon's Sioux wife, Bear Robe, unexpectedly died. In 1848 he married again, this time to an heiress named Odile Lux, who also happened to be his cousin. By 1850 the newlyweds had finished a 4-room farmhouse on land the new Mrs. C owned south of the (originally French colonial) city of St. Louis. The wing on the right in the image below is the original Chatillon house.
They weren't there long, however, selling the place in 6 years to Dr. Nicolas DeMenil (1812-1882), whose wife, Emelie Chouteau, belonged to one of St. Louis' founding families. In 1861, evidently in an "Old South" frame of mind, the DeMenils tripled the size of their house with a large eastern addition, whose imposing columned porch overlooked the Mississippi. The property remained in the family until 1945. The 1861 addition is clearly identifiable on the right side of the image below.
Before it was engulfed by urban St. Louis, you entered this house from the river side.
The neighborhood hasn't been rural, or even suburban, for a long time.
In the early 1960s, construction of Interstate 55, which connects to I-80 at Joliet, very nearly consigned Chatillon-DeMenil to demolition. The house is at the far left of the image below, perilously close to grading for a new on-ramp.
After the fin de siecle glories of Portland and Westmoreland Place (last week's post), Dr. DeMenil's house strikes a comparatively domestic note. It is a charming antique, owned since the 1960s by a non-profit foundation which depends on memberships and weddings, tours and donations, events and gift shop revenues to keep the rain out and the interiors polished.
I'm a front door kind of a guy, so in deference to that, and to Dr. DeMenil's original intent, that's where the Foundation's Lynn Josse is starting our tour.
The interior has a typical center hall layout, furnished as it would have been at the high water mark of the DeMenil period.
Three main rooms run along the south side of the house. Although there's nary a book in sight today, the family used the first as a library.
I'm told the middle room was intended to be the library, but became instead a family parlor. From a plan perspective, the original arrangement made more sense.
The dining room extends into the original farmhouse. An adjacent vintage kitchen was replaced in the '60s with a small catering kitchen (not shown, currently full of storage) and a pair of public restrooms.
There is a back stair and a back hall, but let's turn around and return to the front door.
Flanking the north side of the hall is a double parlor with double fireplaces and a comfortable air of 19th century gentility, unsullied by excessive funds.
Upstairs in the new wing are three principal bedrooms. Before vising them, however, let's take a look at the columned gallery from which, alas, you can no longer see the river.
The three bedrooms are beautifully furnished.
A small suite of rooms located off the back hall was intended originally for children. It has at different times been a caretaker's apartment, foundation office and more recently a "Bride's Suite" for weddings downstairs.
The third floor has two attics, featuring period displays and antique graffiti respectively.
Would I leave without seeing the basement? Not likely.
This is a good place to say goodbye, figuratively anyway, to Dr. DeMenil and his wife Emelie, who gaze at us from the wall of their double parlor. Even if Mrs. D. were the soul of patience and understanding - and I don't know that she was - no one would blame her for suing that portrait painter.
You can imagine the Mississippi glittering beyond the columns, but really it's Interstate 55. Chatillon-DeMenil is absolutely worth a visit, either just to see the house, or to attend some of the many year 'round events held there. The link is www.demenil.org.
From 1836 to 1869, depending on the source one consults, 280,000 to half a million westbound emigrants departed Independence, MO. on the Oregon Trail. By 1843 the initial trickle had become a torrent. America's westbound frenzy was further fanned by the 1847 serialization in Knickerbocker's Magazine of "The Oregon Trail," by Francis Parkman (1823-1893). The pioneers he wrote about were brave, tough people; the trail they followed was 2000 miles long; their wagons sometimes had to be disassembled and carried; 10% who started never finished. One band, calling itself the Oregon Dragoons, carried a banner that said "Oregon or the Grave." The largest cause of mortality (surprisingly) wasn't Indian attack but accidental gunshot.
Here's N.C. Wyeth's painting of Francis Parkman, commissioned for a 1925 reissue of "The Oregon Trail." I don't know if Parkman was really that good looking, but the outfit is legit. Parkman's praise of his wilderness guide, a Frenchman named Henri Chatillon (1813-1873), included a description of the latter's "trousers of deer-skin, ornamented along the seams with rows of long fringes...his bullet pouch and powderhorn hung at his side..." Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, not the less so when it's such a good look. Parkman's published odes to his "true-hearted friend" made Chatillon famous.
Uber-guide Chatillon, seen below on a bad hair day, enabled his 23-year-old Boston Brahmin employer to produce a singularly readable travelogue containing episodes like "A Mountain Hunt," "The War Parties," "Scenes at Fort Laramie," "Indian Alarms," "The Lonely Journey," etc., etc. The public ate it up, even after 1869 when the first transcontinental railroad enabled anyone with $65 to make the same trip in 7 days.
The Chatillon-DeMenil Mansion, seen below from Demenil Place in South St. Louis, MO, started out as a 4-room farmhouse. While off in the wilderness with Parkman, Chatillon's Sioux wife, Bear Robe, unexpectedly died. In 1848 he married again, this time to an heiress named Odile Lux, who also happened to be his cousin. By 1850 the newlyweds had finished a 4-room farmhouse on land the new Mrs. C owned south of the (originally French colonial) city of St. Louis. The wing on the right in the image below is the original Chatillon house.
They weren't there long, however, selling the place in 6 years to Dr. Nicolas DeMenil (1812-1882), whose wife, Emelie Chouteau, belonged to one of St. Louis' founding families. In 1861, evidently in an "Old South" frame of mind, the DeMenils tripled the size of their house with a large eastern addition, whose imposing columned porch overlooked the Mississippi. The property remained in the family until 1945. The 1861 addition is clearly identifiable on the right side of the image below.
Before it was engulfed by urban St. Louis, you entered this house from the river side.
The neighborhood hasn't been rural, or even suburban, for a long time.
In the early 1960s, construction of Interstate 55, which connects to I-80 at Joliet, very nearly consigned Chatillon-DeMenil to demolition. The house is at the far left of the image below, perilously close to grading for a new on-ramp.
After the fin de siecle glories of Portland and Westmoreland Place (last week's post), Dr. DeMenil's house strikes a comparatively domestic note. It is a charming antique, owned since the 1960s by a non-profit foundation which depends on memberships and weddings, tours and donations, events and gift shop revenues to keep the rain out and the interiors polished.
I'm a front door kind of a guy, so in deference to that, and to Dr. DeMenil's original intent, that's where the Foundation's Lynn Josse is starting our tour.
The interior has a typical center hall layout, furnished as it would have been at the high water mark of the DeMenil period.
Three main rooms run along the south side of the house. Although there's nary a book in sight today, the family used the first as a library.
I'm told the middle room was intended to be the library, but became instead a family parlor. From a plan perspective, the original arrangement made more sense.
The dining room extends into the original farmhouse. An adjacent vintage kitchen was replaced in the '60s with a small catering kitchen (not shown, currently full of storage) and a pair of public restrooms.
There is a back stair and a back hall, but let's turn around and return to the front door.
Flanking the north side of the hall is a double parlor with double fireplaces and a comfortable air of 19th century gentility, unsullied by excessive funds.
Upstairs in the new wing are three principal bedrooms. Before vising them, however, let's take a look at the columned gallery from which, alas, you can no longer see the river.
The three bedrooms are beautifully furnished.
A small suite of rooms located off the back hall was intended originally for children. It has at different times been a caretaker's apartment, foundation office and more recently a "Bride's Suite" for weddings downstairs.
The third floor has two attics, featuring period displays and antique graffiti respectively.
Would I leave without seeing the basement? Not likely.
This is a good place to say goodbye, figuratively anyway, to Dr. DeMenil and his wife Emelie, who gaze at us from the wall of their double parlor. Even if Mrs. D. were the soul of patience and understanding - and I don't know that she was - no one would blame her for suing that portrait painter.
You can imagine the Mississippi glittering beyond the columns, but really it's Interstate 55. Chatillon-DeMenil is absolutely worth a visit, either just to see the house, or to attend some of the many year 'round events held there. The link is www.demenil.org.
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